Embracing complexity with compassion

Life can certainly be complicated sometimes. We have the capacity to know and learn so much, but sorting through the information available to us is its own particular challenge. We long for that one clear voice that stands out, ringing like a bell from amidst a clamoring, chattering room of dissonant voices. The one that says, Here is what you need to know. Here is what’s indisputably true. Just know this one thing, these few simple things, and you will have your answer. You will have the peace of mind you seek.

There is no denying that we can never completely escape the quantum complexity that can make life and decision-making so incredibly challenging. We can’t be certain how to navigate conflict in a relationship, what to choose as a major in college, or even figure out which toothpaste brand to buy. There are so many choices—so many directions to take!

For me, creating art is a practice that returns me to a state of balance. I find in the seeming chaos within my art a beautiful surrender to complexity; and through the method by which I structure and order my art, I discover insights into how to manage the complexity of my own extraordinary life.

Take a look at one of my pieces, and you will instantly see that there is always more than meets the eye. Even in only two dimensions, there are layers, symbols, and stories in abundance. I’m often delighted to hear that someone has picked up on something in my work that I’ve never noticed. At the same time, there is a sense of ritual that grounds my work. The repetition and precise mathematical structure of various elements are deeply soothing to me. I crave excitement and passion and joy, but if I fly too high, I drift off like a kite. Patterns, whether they involve self-care or specific daily routines to help maximize my efficiency, keep me grounded. My art integrates the perpetual need for balance and stability.

We humans need to be broken open in order to transform. We need to have our routines and rhythms challenged, lest we live in complacency thinking that old, stolid ways need never change. And yet we do also need to feel secure to a certain degree, and this expresses itself differently in each individual. One person may find a fearless sort of pleasure in jumping off cliffs attached to a bungee cord, yet is unable to fall asleep at night without cuddling up to a stuffed animal he has had since childhood. Another may travel for a living and have no need for a fixed and dependable living space, but one day, her laptop, which has been her steadfast companion across thousands of miles, crashes. She has to buy a new one, but it isn’t the same. The keys feel different on her fingers, and something isn’t right. She loses steam, and her fervent penning of the daily travel blog that has attracted thousands of global followers wanes as she tries to adjust.

Within complexity, there is both order and chaos. There is always underlying structure, although it may be difficult to detect beneath a myriad of shifting layers, textures, emotions. As we humans stretch our awareness further and further, we may struggle to grapple with the immensity of what lies beyond our immediate sphere. The beauty lies in embracing it—all of it. Once we relax and allow ourselves to surrender to the infinite complexity of substance, form, and that which is Beyond, we slip into that dance ourselves and become one with it, and find the way that we are effortlessly meant to go. We find the connection to the underlying order of things.

In accepting the complex dance of life, we are no longer disconnected Self, frightened and worrying—we are woven securely into the very seams of the cosmic fabric, part of All. We are creating, and we are created. We begin to comprehend, intuitively, the innate meaning that doubt and confusion often prevent us from perceiving. And so we move toward a life full of purpose, and through the process of seeking and questioning that leads to wisdom, also toward growth.